I received a phone message from my friend Marcel last
Saturday. It was one of those
messages where it sounded like something wasn’t right. “Yer gonna want to call me back…” he
said in a tone that made it clear something was wrong. Often when you get something like that
your mind rolls a montage of potentials for what’s going on as you dial the
number. Nikki answered and put
Marcel on the phone and his tone was the exact same as the voice mail. Marcel had an accident on his
motorcycle…news I’d never want to hear from anyone much less this great man.
On a nice day after a run to deliver some tomatoes to
friends Marcel was minding his own business enjoying the twists and turns of
his neighborhood way up near Barry’s Bay.
It’s incredible country up there with some roads that were meant for a
bike. As he entered a left handed
curve a car approached from the other direction too fast. The driver crossed the yellow line
forcing Marcel to straighten to avoid the impending head on collision. While his efforts solved the threat of
certain death it also introduced a whole new problem…the soft gravel shoulder. Marcel’s skills allowed him to
fight the will of the stones for a moment. His other skills allowed him to
identify that fact that the next stop was the trees if he didn’t take action. He dropped the motorcycle and wasn’t
able to get away from it resulting in a collar bone broken in three places, a
bike scratched and dented and a love of motorcycles lost.
The driver of the car never stopped and may or may not know
what he or she caused. The speed
and carelessness of that driver nearly cost me a friend. That’s something I ponder as I also consider
how I’d encouraged Marcel to ride again.
We rode once together…that’s it.
I can still see it, a bright cool spring morning his first time after a very
long time. I won’t see that again
it seems.
I had put off going up to see him to go for a ride a few
times. It’s nearly four hours away
and I kept placing it in the TO DO pile never having made it a TO DONE. I’ll regret that and take something
from it. Make the effort to do
things you think of doing sooner than later. The rest of life isn’t as important as family and
friends. That’s the part that
matters.
Go ride and be safe.

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